My husband and I are separated but trying to %26quot;work%26quot; things out. He came and spoke to my parents told them and me that he is going to change, that he is going to work extra hard to bring all our bills back on track etc..He messed things up in the 1st place when he started withdrawing money without thinking that bills needed to be paid for,now our car insurance and car note along with other bills are past due,of course along with other bills...my husband called me throughout this whole week he was very loving and all.. kept reassuring me that this was a huge lesson he has learned and that he will work hard to get us back together and back on track. Well last night the calls stopped today he hasnt called me at all, I heard a voicemail he had from a cash advance loan store, this morning I checked the balance on the bacnk account (since he got paid today) the$was there, but then 2hours later more than half of the$was gone! I call him and he doesnt pick up! Why is this?
Why is he hiding around after calling me all week?
He's got something on the side, and yes, I mean another woman.
DO NOT get back together with this man. Even if you think you can trust him, you'll be in the poor house FOREVER.
Why is he hiding around after calling me all week?
Hon, he has a girlfriend who is giving him a bad time..on and off.... you are being kept as the jerk in reserve...That's why.
Why is he hiding around after calling me all week?
He obviously has some real impulse issues that need working out. My husband does same thing. I applaud you for having the backbone to step out and get separated, but I hope you separated the money as well. I am willing to bet he has committed himself to something else financially and is in trouble. It sounds like without you he might even have less control over impulses. Some people are just like that. If you aren't willing to be 100% responsible for bills, and making the money get out now. He is now avoiding you because he's embarrassed. I would even suspect, drugs/gambling... where does money go!
Why is he hiding around after calling me all week?
Sweet Pea it just seems like you both are having a little financial difficulty. It happens in every marriage. You both just need to communicate more on how the money is spent and probably see a counselor to help. Good luck!
Why is he hiding around after calling me all week?
Obviously I can't tell you why or what he is doing. All I can say is you're right to panic a bit, can you go to where he's currently staying and confront him? I'm afraid that's your only option if he won't answer his phone/e-mail. Good luck.
Why is he hiding around after calling me all week?
he fcked up again and doesn't want to pick up because you'll only yell at him....he'll call, they always call, or maybe he gambled that money to make more and lost it and doesn' t know how to tell you...idk look for him make sure he hasn't done anything stupid
Why is he hiding around after calling me all week?
The writing is on the wall. You cannot make someone change.
Move on, take care of yourself.
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