Would u lie?

~ not borrow? or

~ keep it from you significant other?

if lets say, you were to (or could) borrow -much needed- money from someone he/she disliked?

Keep in mind there are few alternatives to borrow from- like banks, other family members, ect...plus the interest involved would set u back for years!

Im talking about 3thousand-but still get the hint.

I am so curious as to what you people would do in tihs case.

*and there are no srtings attached--none (from the peson loaning the cash).

Would u lie?

No I wouldn't lie, but the trick is to get your significant other to realize that there is no other choice and get them to decide to borrow from them.

Would u lie?

i would lie if it saved a life.

Would u lie?

no

Would u lie?

you have to be honest with your significant other.

Would u lie?

I think it would be wrong to do that. I think your other half needs to be involved with it, and both of ou make the decision no matter where it comes from.

Would u lie?

I would do what I had to do.

Would u lie?

Nope. Everything is an open book in my marriage.

Would u lie?

I would not lie

Would u lie?

I would talk to my husband BEFORE borrowing the money - explain the sitution and if he disagrees, ask him for an alternative solution you could both live with.

Would u lie?

no

Would u lie?

You cant borrow that money with interest for years and it not be found out.

Would u lie?

i would lie..but i would hope my boyfriend wouldnt do it

Would u lie?

borrow only if you can pay back!!

Would u lie?

If your husband wouldn't want to borrow money from someone he doesn't like, chances are you both don't need the money that bad. Lying is never good and it will only be something you will always have to keep from him. You'll regret it.

Would u lie?

Nope, I wouldn't do it. It would be a constant strain on me...knowing that I did something that he wouldn't have approved of.

Would u lie?

If you have to lie, and go behind someones back, then you know your doing something wrong.

Would u lie?

i would lie. if it is the better choice and and the cheapest choice, then i would lie. but if the signifigant other has a HUGE problem with the person, not just dislike, but loathes with a passion, then it might not be worth it.

Would u lie?

No, I would get a damn job! I would also not date a broke bum or be in a situation where $3000 was %26quot;a lot%26quot; of money to me!

Would u lie?

No I would not do it. Only because I would be so mad if they lied to me!

Would u lie?

I wouldn't borrow that much money from anybody I know, especially not from friends. Money has a way of souring a relationship. I would borrow from a bank institution and pay the interest. It's not worth it borrowing from a friend or family. If I was married to this %26quot;significant other%26quot;, I would tell them about the loan - because if something happened, he would be responsible for this loan. If I was just dating this guy, no, I wouldn't tell him, but I wouldn't lie to him if he asked.

Would u lie?

No. You start with the little things, and when your significant other finds out, they simply can't trust you with the big things. Don't even get started with this.

Would u lie?

what's wrong w/borrowing from family,the interest rate will be lower than bank and if it was my family, it would be a gift.

Would u lie?

well i think u know the answer to that...

Would u lie?

I would not lie. If I needed to borrow money, I would borrow it from someone that I do not have to hide from my partner/mate.

By the way, there are always strings when you loan money to someone. Money changes everything.

Would u lie?

i would take the money, only because im in a rocky relationship right now. u do have a point on interest but i mean if ur other cant give you the money u need ,well u got to get it somehow right

Would u lie?

Tanyah, I would most certainly be honest with my partner. If I was to embellish or not be 100% over this situation and get away with it, then it would make it much easier to lie again in the future and feel like I got away with it once so maybe again. Besides personally I would have a problem just talking with her as it would be eating me up inside knowing that I did something behind her back that I know dam well she would not approve of or be comfortable with. Perhaps I am just too honest a guy or getting to old to lie but I know if the shoe were reversed I wouldn't be happy if she was to try and do something like that behind my back. Just one old guys opinion on honesty in relationships.

Would u lie?

Well.. assuming that I could not get the money from anyone else including the bank and a old friend that was not liked my by other wanted to give me the money I would take it.

And I would let my spouse do the same if I could not do it.

The bottom line the person I love is getting the help they need. And if anyone has something to say about it without saying %26quot;here you go take this from me%26quot;! Is just being selfish.

Would u lie?

I wouldn't do that to him. That would be wrong, it would change him in my eyes and make him look like a fool in the eyes of who ever i borrowed it from. I love him and never want him compromised in any way.

Would u lie?

I would discuss all the factors with my husband before accepting the money ( I lied once and that only got me farther in debt in the long run )

Would u lie?

I would do it only if I can get my mate to understand that we need this money and I don't have to do anything for it.

If he's dead set against you borrowing the money from the person he doesn't like then I wouldn't do it.

What will happen is that he will eventually find out where you got the money from and feel less then a man because you had to go to another man to help you guys out. No man wants to feel like they can't provide for their family.

So, if you want to keep the person you are with, DON'T DO IT. It will only backfire on you in the end.

Would u lie?

I wouldn't lie. If we really needed the money, I would just tell him that that was our only option. I bet there really are some strings attached. Why does your husband not like this person? The fact that you are even considering this is a red flag that your marriage is in trouble . Marriage should be based on trust, not lies.